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Sunday, August 21, 2005

What if you have to choose....

I read this from one of the famous blogger in this blogging industry thingy.

Well,shouldnt lift any text from his blog but I thought the dilemma faced is rather a painful one.

Say what if you have to choose b/w the life you want and then your family and the rightful responsibilities that you ought to bear?

The life you wanted and the person you love was all the other way at the other side from your family and the responsibilites.

You have to choose one.
Which will you take?

It's not that you are at the age of settling down for a family and so.
An age where the peak of life should be.
Your dreams and the one you are together for years are there.
But you have to leave coz your family is here.
It's not that you really have a choice though.
If you haven't leave for your family that time, you would be living in remorse all your life.

Why?

Coz one of ur family members is dying?
Say it was his father in his case.
And now his dad is dead, he cant leave too.

Why?
His mother who will be all alone?
And the responsibility of a child.

And it's not that your love or dream will come together with you once you decided to move for your family.


A pain huh?

I guess it's pretty similar to anything in life.

There's always an opportunity cost.


Sometimes the price is too big yet you still have to pay and carry the debt with you.


Sigh...


Would you say that life is fair or unfair in circumstances like this?

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